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If you are looking for a book to help you understand infidelity you can read Annette Lawson's book, "Adultery". The exact reference is below.
Lawson, Annette (1988). Adultery. New York: Basic Books. A sociological study of extramarital relationships, including data from hundreds of interviews, both statistical and anecdotal. This book is written from the viewpoint of a feminist scholar.