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How can Iearn to trust my spouse after an affair?

Creating The Change After The Affair

Change occurs when guilt is felt. However, guilt must come from the inside rather than from a raging, nasty spouse; anger is an appropriate emotion after an affair, but it is not productive if it is used to shame, belittle, and criticize the person who had the affair.

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