Question:
What can I do if I am too aware of my own impefections to have sex?
Sexual Myths #2
In her book, "The Surrendered Wife", Laura Doyle writes about 7 myths about sex. Myth number 2 is:
If I have sex with him, I'll have to work hard to prevent him from seeing how fat/freckled/wrinkled/sweaty I am.?
Fact: We're accustomed to thinking that we're unattractive if we haven't showered, done out hair, put on makeup and perfume, or put on a pretty outfit with matching earrings. We women are especially hard on ourselves when it comes to the way we look. But no matter what your state, you have a womanly state, you have a womanly shape and scent and a feminine spirit that is attractive to your man, which is why he's making goo-goo eyes. Seize that opporunity to connect.
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Recent Marriage Questions
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My birth date is February 18th 1974, 22:00. In the last year I have made relationships that can only be described as a "complete disaster!" Is there any possibility that I may find love/good relationship anytime soon??
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My fiance and I are getting married July 4. I am in the Marines stationed in Iwakuni, Japan. I still have a problem with telling my parents everything that my fiance and I talk about. I believe this originates from me being real close to my parents. This obviously really hurts her, because she feels she cant trust me. Is there anything I can do practice not telling my parents every little thing her and I talk about, or much less do.
Thank you,
John
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Worried about losing my marraige. We have had 5 domestic violence arrests in 6 months. A judge issued a no contact order. We really want to work this out through counsling, and stay together.His family now hates me and mine dislikes him. Everyone advises us to let go but we love each other. How.what can we do? The no contact is killing us.
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