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When individuals stop showing their spouse care, affection, and kindness it often feels like rejection to the other spouse. Such feelings can be devastating to the individual feeling rejected. The actions of being unkind, not showing affection, and displaying unkind behaviors towards your spouse is a form of abuse.
For the past month, I have completely experienced this from my husband. I don't know what to do. Plus, not having sex with him and really to the point of begging for it....is a discomforting feeling. I did not know that rejection can be a form of abuse.
For the past 3 years we have had sex about 6 times he calles me names- fat controller, Whore nymphomaniac etc in front of the older children and their partners. Now he is even accusing me of having an affair 20 years ago. I earn about 6 times his income and am higher educated. With that we have no friends. The societies which I belong to he openly redicules spitting venum. What do I do? I suggested a counceller to him. He said I have the problem not him. He throws things and stomps around if we go together. He accused me of not confiding in him but how can I if it is rediculed or ignored.
I have asked him to leave he said why should he He does not have the/ a problem.
What are my steps?. Please help me define a path
|Jennifer Mathes, Ph.D.|