November 13, 2009, Newsletter Issue #302: Can I Really Change?

Tip of the Week

Sometimes in marriage we do things that hurt our spouse. Often we recognize it, but all too often we find that we do it over and over again. In instances such as this we often feel we are just that way and our spouse is going to have to accept us the way we are. Other times we blame them for our misbehaviors. I have come to believe that we can change and if we really want to make our marriage better we will change the things we do that bothers our spouse. If you are struggling with changing yourself, I recommend that you stop and create a game plan for doing something different next time you find yourself doing what bothers your spouse. If you make a mistake keep working at it, but analyze what your biggest challenges are and then focus on stopping the behavior. You might want to enlist the help of your spouse. Good luck!

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