When Will the Pain End?

Divorce is something that lasts a lifetime. No, this doesn´t mean that life is over, it just means that going through divorce will impact the rest of your life. Moving on is possible but it requires learning new relationship skills and solving unhealthy patterns. Many times it requires a new beginning. My recommendation is to find new connections or renew old connections with family and other friends. I believe connections post divorce are the most critical for healing. One word of caution here is that this connection doesn´t have to be sexual (that can be dangerous). I also recommend that individuals dealing with the loss of divorce begin developing new rituals and events that create hope and replace the old ones from marriage.