Get Fresh Tips Every Week!
Don't Miss Any Marriage Tips. Subscribe to the Marriage Tip Newsletter.

View Archive

Bookmark      RSS
 

Business Solutions
Our tips are powerful.
Our writers are experts.
Our results are guaranteed.

 

Listen to our Radio Show
Hot topics for both consumers
and webmarketers
on WebmasterRadio.FM

Every Wednesday, 5PM Eastern.

 

March 23, 2007, Newsletter Issue #166: The Power Of Beliefs


1

Tip of the Week

When people misbehave many of us focus on the misbehavior. However, I believe we would be more productive if we dealt with the beliefs that lead to the misbehavior. Our beliefs are powerful as they are the authorizers of our actions or behaviors. Below are a few beliefs that can help and hurt your relationships.

HELPFUL BELIEFS
a) I should always treat my spouse with respect.
b) I should be faithful to my spouse no matter what.
c) I should be kind and considerate of my spouse.
d) I should expect to be treated with respect and my spouse should expect that I treat him/her good.
e) Marriage is a commitment that should last a lifetime and I will do everything I can to make it work.

HURTFUL BELIEFS
a) My spouse should do anything I want him/her to do.
b) If my spouse really loved me, he/she wouldn´t disagree with me.
c) If we fight too much we can always get a divorce.
d) As long as I am not hurting myself, my spouse shouldn´t care what I do.
e) I should be able to criticize my spouse.

These are just a few of the helpful and hurtful beliefs that some individuals have. I would invite you to analyze your beliefs and see how they are impacting your marriage.



2

About LifeTips

Now one of the top on-line publishers in the world, LifeTips offers tips to millions of monthly visitors. Our mission mission is to make your life smarter, better, faster and wiser. Expert writers earn dough for what they know. And exclusive sponsors in each niche topic help us make-it-all happen.



Learn more about our Content Development Solutions we offer our clients.