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Q: How can I prevent getting a divorce?
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Avoid Marital Suicide
At some point in most marital relationships one or both partners question whether they made the right choice in a partner or not. In many cases the stress is high in the relationship and an individual or both partners begin to feel that the best option is to end their relationship and get a divorce (what I have termed marital suicide). In far too many cases these couples havenīt been married very long and they are dealing with the initial pains and trials of marriage. Unfortunately, what these couples do not realize is that their relationship pains will NOT go away by getting a divorce. They will surface in a new relationship. Consequently, if a couple can survive the initial pains and trials in their marriage they can find the happiness and success they long for. Below are some suggestions to help you survive the initial pains.
a) Listen to each other. Seriously try understanding your partnerīs pains and trials. b) Take responsibility and stop doing the things you do that bothers or hurts your spouse. c) Be kind and show empathy toward your spouse. If they donīt reciprocate show more love. d) Donīt criticize your spouse. Criticism will ruin a marriage. Recognize that your spouse wonīt be perfect. e) Find ways to serve your spouse even if you donīt want to. In serving your spouse you might rekindle some of the feelings you felt for each other while you were dating or earlier in your marriage. f) Search within yourself and remember the deep feelings of love you once had for your spouse.
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My birth date is February 18th 1974, 22:00. In the last year I have made relationships that can only be described as a "complete disaster!" Is there any possibility that I may find love/good relationship anytime soon??
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My fiance and I are getting married July 4. I am in the Marines stationed in Iwakuni, Japan. I still have a problem with telling my parents everything that my fiance and I talk about. I believe this originates from me being real close to my parents. This obviously really hurts her, because she feels she cant trust me. Is there anything I can do practice not telling my parents every little thing her and I talk about, or much less do. Thank you, John
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Worried about losing my marraige. We have had 5 domestic violence arrests in 6 months. A judge issued a no contact order. We really want to work this out through counsling, and stay together.His family now hates me and mine dislikes him. Everyone advises us to let go but we love each other. How.what can we do? The no contact is killing us.
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