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Q: Do affairs occur when love dies?
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Myth #3 Affairs Occur When Love Dies
Often people explain that most marriages are fine before the affair happened, and the decision that they were not in love with their marriage partner is often an effort to explain and justify the affair. Being in love doesn't protect people from lust. Screwing around on your loved one is not a very loving thing to do, and it may be downright hostile. Falling out of love is no reason to betray your mate. If people are experiencing a deficiency in their ability to love their partner, it is not clear how something so hateful as betraying him or her would restore it.
After the Affair
Janis Abrahms Spring has written a nice book on how to deal with the affair after it has occurred. This book, written for the general public, is a thoughtful guide to the many questions that partners must confront following the discovery of an affair.
Reference:
Spring, Janis Abrahms (1996). After the Affair. New York: Harper Perrenial.
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My birth date is February 18th 1974, 22:00. In the last year I have made relationships that can only be described as a "complete disaster!" Is there any possibility that I may find love/good relationship anytime soon??
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My fiance and I are getting married July 4. I am in the Marines stationed in Iwakuni, Japan. I still have a problem with telling my parents everything that my fiance and I talk about. I believe this originates from me being real close to my parents. This obviously really hurts her, because she feels she cant trust me. Is there anything I can do practice not telling my parents every little thing her and I talk about, or much less do. Thank you, John
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Worried about losing my marraige. We have had 5 domestic violence arrests in 6 months. A judge issued a no contact order. We really want to work this out through counsling, and stay together.His family now hates me and mine dislikes him. Everyone advises us to let go but we love each other. How.what can we do? The no contact is killing us.
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